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This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

awwww-cute:

This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

Anonymous: one of my friends started cutting when she was upset at school & someone gave her a blade & says "it helps" & i dont know what to do. Shes now really depressed & her boyfriend calls her thing like a fuck up and whore and i think he may have hit her but she says shes still with him bc hes the only guy that could like her. What should i do?

Hey love <3

First, whoever gave her the blade is a fucking asshole, because I have never met anoterh cutter who actually encourages others to do it - in fact they do everything in their power to prevent them from ever picking up a blade.

You need to help her stop cutting, before it becomes more of an addiction than it already is. Here is a list of alternatives that I have found and other cutters have sent in saying they have helped:

http://stopthepainnow.tumblr.com/post/23748001283/alternatives-to-self-harm

The guy is a douche! There are so many nice guys out there who would love her and be there for her whenever she felt sad or depressed. Help her see that. And even if she doesn’t find another guy for a while, wouldn’t it be better to be alone and strong than with some jerk who told you that you’re a whore for being depressed? Let her knowit is okay to not have a boyfriend, focus on school and find activities you enjoy - when the right time comes along, the right guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. And if you are already happy and strong, he will just add onto it instead of you needing to find someone who can provide that stuff for you.

I hope this helped and if you need anything else, just message me <3

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Anonymous: My older step-sister has been abused by her partner. She left him two weeks ago but is terrified that he's going to come after her and their two children (3 months and 3 years). She has a restraining order on him so he can't go near her or the kids but he broke into her house last night and ran around it with a knife, they weren't home but I'm so scared that he's going to do something, she's terrified the kids will end up at the bottom of a lake to spite her or I will and I'm so so scared.

Hey love <3

So, I’m pretty sure this is the same person I just replied to but just in case. Restraining orders are just pieces of paper - the guy isn’t mentally stable, so with that being said who won’t give a fuck about a piece of paper. That being said there are a few options here: move somewhere he won’t look to keep her and the kids safe, move in with a family member, get an alarm system (if she doesn’t already have one - this could save her life), buy a gun and/or peperspray - she needs to be able to protect her until the police shows up if ever needed, if she ever hears a strange noise - call the police immediately. I am pretty sure there are programs set up for women who have been in abusive relationships - like they will give you and the kids a place to stay on a well security grounds that way she will be safe - like that might be something to look into for a bit.

Please let me know what happens! Hang in there love and stay safe <3

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Anonymous: My sisters in the middle of a messy divorce. He's been abusing her psychologically and physically and when she left he chased her with a knife and she is so lucky to be okay. She got a restraining order yesterday that says he can't go near her or the kids. Her youngest child is a month old and the other one is two and I'm so scared he's going to go after them and that she's not coping, what do I do?

Hey love <3

Be there for her. Talk to her often. Does she have a family member she can move in with for awhile - maybe a strong male? Or maybe a relative across the country. She needs to distance her and her kids from him until he calms down. He doesn’t sound very mentally stable, so who knows what he is capable of - you just need to watch out for her and if she gets scared at night or something, make sure she will call the police immediately. I’m not one to say go out and buy a gun, but not only for her safety but for her kids too, talk to her about maybe buying a gun to keep in her room with her - just in case she ever needs to be able to protect herself before the police show up.

I hope everything gets better soon!

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Anonymous: I'm a month clean today and I wanna thank you so much, what you do here is amazing and you help so many people, I also wanna ask are you okay? Because you can't keep helping so many others if you're falling to pieces yourself <3

Hey love <3

This is amazing! Congratulations - you are doing an amazing job and are so strong! Don’t give up, just keep moving foward and take one day at a time. 

And honestly, I’m not too great - my life has been very up and down lately, but I keep moving foward cause it’ll get better eventually. 

I hope you are still doing well love <3

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Boy Battling Cancer Wants Birthday Cards

dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

Hello my beautiful followers,

I know you guys have a few extra mintues to kill, so why not do something to bring a little boy’s wish come true? In this article, you will read about a 5-year-old Danny, who got diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor :( And as you can imagine, he gets lonely from time to time. So, he is turning 6 this Friday, July 25. And when asked what he wants for his birthday he said he just wants birthday cards! (It makes him so happy when he sees his name on cards and packages). He loves Legos and Super Mario, so maybe an idea for a card theme. 

You can send his card(s) to the following adress: 

Danny Nickerson, P.O. Box 212, Foxboro, MA, 02035. 

So, please help put a smile on this little boy’s face (:

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"The world is filled with nice people. If you can’t find one, be one."
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I find this very relaxing.

I find this very relaxing.