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Anonymous: i just wanted to share with all ur followers that this time two years ago i thought i would have killed myself by now, this time one year ago today i cut for the last time, three weeks ago my brother got told he was cancer free and today i got out of bed and could smile simply bc i am alive. it will get better, u just need a little time :) also thanks so much for supporting so many people, me included.

Aww this is a great message! Thank you so much love for sending this to me. I’m sure this message will help - I know it helped me. And I am so happy to hear about your brother and you - I hope life continues going well for you.

Stay strong love <3

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Anonymous: is it wrong that i dont really want to recovery from my depression? is that unusual becuz its too hard to try to recover and i dont think i could face it all changing? im sorry if this is a stupid question but i wanna know if i should just get over it and recover.

Hey love <3

No I don’t think that is a stupid question. I think everyone feels like that at times, but you just gotta know it is worth the long road to recovery to be happy again. Doesn’t it hurt being depressed all the time? Wouldn’t you rather go through some hell to get to that happy place? 

Please hang in there love <3

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Anonymous: I used to SH lots and lots, but I ended up being clean for around 8 months, but tonight I relapsed. And I'm sorry for everything. I'm sorry for being such a fuck up.

Love, that doesn’t make you a fuck up! SH is an addiction, and recovering from an addiction is a long trying journey. You are bound to relapse a few times, before you fully recover. Do you know how amazing being clean for 8 months is?! You’re amazing and beautiful and just absolutely amazing! The road to recovery will knock you down, but you only truly fail if you never stand back up again.

Hang in there love <3

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dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

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This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

awwww-cute:

This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

Anonymous: one of my friends started cutting when she was upset at school & someone gave her a blade & says "it helps" & i dont know what to do. Shes now really depressed & her boyfriend calls her thing like a fuck up and whore and i think he may have hit her but she says shes still with him bc hes the only guy that could like her. What should i do?

Hey love <3

First, whoever gave her the blade is a fucking asshole, because I have never met anoterh cutter who actually encourages others to do it - in fact they do everything in their power to prevent them from ever picking up a blade.

You need to help her stop cutting, before it becomes more of an addiction than it already is. Here is a list of alternatives that I have found and other cutters have sent in saying they have helped:

http://stopthepainnow.tumblr.com/post/23748001283/alternatives-to-self-harm

The guy is a douche! There are so many nice guys out there who would love her and be there for her whenever she felt sad or depressed. Help her see that. And even if she doesn’t find another guy for a while, wouldn’t it be better to be alone and strong than with some jerk who told you that you’re a whore for being depressed? Let her knowit is okay to not have a boyfriend, focus on school and find activities you enjoy - when the right time comes along, the right guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. And if you are already happy and strong, he will just add onto it instead of you needing to find someone who can provide that stuff for you.

I hope this helped and if you need anything else, just message me <3

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Anonymous: My older step-sister has been abused by her partner. She left him two weeks ago but is terrified that he's going to come after her and their two children (3 months and 3 years). She has a restraining order on him so he can't go near her or the kids but he broke into her house last night and ran around it with a knife, they weren't home but I'm so scared that he's going to do something, she's terrified the kids will end up at the bottom of a lake to spite her or I will and I'm so so scared.

Hey love <3

So, I’m pretty sure this is the same person I just replied to but just in case. Restraining orders are just pieces of paper - the guy isn’t mentally stable, so with that being said who won’t give a fuck about a piece of paper. That being said there are a few options here: move somewhere he won’t look to keep her and the kids safe, move in with a family member, get an alarm system (if she doesn’t already have one - this could save her life), buy a gun and/or peperspray - she needs to be able to protect her until the police shows up if ever needed, if she ever hears a strange noise - call the police immediately. I am pretty sure there are programs set up for women who have been in abusive relationships - like they will give you and the kids a place to stay on a well security grounds that way she will be safe - like that might be something to look into for a bit.

Please let me know what happens! Hang in there love and stay safe <3

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Anonymous: My sisters in the middle of a messy divorce. He's been abusing her psychologically and physically and when she left he chased her with a knife and she is so lucky to be okay. She got a restraining order yesterday that says he can't go near her or the kids. Her youngest child is a month old and the other one is two and I'm so scared he's going to go after them and that she's not coping, what do I do?

Hey love <3

Be there for her. Talk to her often. Does she have a family member she can move in with for awhile - maybe a strong male? Or maybe a relative across the country. She needs to distance her and her kids from him until he calms down. He doesn’t sound very mentally stable, so who knows what he is capable of - you just need to watch out for her and if she gets scared at night or something, make sure she will call the police immediately. I’m not one to say go out and buy a gun, but not only for her safety but for her kids too, talk to her about maybe buying a gun to keep in her room with her - just in case she ever needs to be able to protect herself before the police show up.

I hope everything gets better soon!

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