This is for any of you Doctor Who fans - it made me smile and I hope it makes you smile too :)
Hey love <3
First off, no one is ugly - that is how I know you are beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you have ever been called ugly - they were wrong and just because you might not have been their definition of beautiful, doesn’t give them a right to judge you on your appearance.
Even the meanest person ever has some kindness in their heart. Everyone has been hurt in someway and deals with it differently - so if someone bullies other people, it is wrong, but doesn’t mean they don’t have a soft spot - they could be amazing with animals and whenever they see an animal hurt, they stop and help them.
So, what I’m getting at is this: I don’t know you personally. But I do know that everyone is beautiful, because they are unique and different. And everyone has have a soft spot - even if they don’t know it, they do. I’ve met people who say they don’t have a heart, but they are the first ones to help someone in need with no judgement. Do you see where I’m getting at? <3
One of the more accurate things I’ve seen on here. Our image of ourselves can be so horrible and so far away from the truth. We don’t see ourselves as a beautiful person who has obsessions with fictional characters and shows, the look in our eyes when we find something that we love, our laugh to some stupid joke, the smile that spreads from ear to ear, our eyes when we shed tears from being hurt for so long - we don’t ever get to see any of that. We don’t ever get to see how amazing, beautiful, and just wonderful we are - why? Because we see our flaws and we obsess over them so much that we don’t think anyone will love us, because of our flaws. We are beautiful human beings that are too quick to find the faults in ourselves instead of finding the things that are beautiful and make people fall in love with us.
So anyone who takes the time to read this:
You are not worthless. You are beautiful, kind, and have a beautiful heart. And if you are sad, cry from the heaviness of your heart, feel alone, and sad - it is okay, it will get better. You aren’t alone, I know I’m just some stranger, but I see how beautiful you are and see how amazing you are - if you ever need anything - write me, I won’t judge. Hang in there and stay strong - you have a beautiful life waiting for you to live and discover. <3
Hey love <3
I’m sorry for the late reply :( Okay, uh this isn’t exactly normal and I don’t really have any good advice for you, because everyone I’ve talked to or know doesn’t like being sad and emotionally hurt. So, I don’t want to tell you the wrong thing, but do you think maybe you like that stuff because it is a comfort to you? Like, it is something that is familiar to you and you know that if you are hurt and sad, you won’t be let down, whereas if you are happy, you might be sad again?
Hang in there and stay strong, love <3
Hey love <3
Okay first off, you have so many talents and skills - you just haven’t found them yet and you are being too hard on yourself. You can’t compare yourself to others, so if you are basing if you have talents or skills off of other people, stop that - because you are not them, you are different and you do things your own way. You are beautiful, amazing, talented, skilled, and just overall amazing! Do you have anyone else you can talk to? A relative, a friend, a friend’s parent, someone from school, a neighbor? If yes, talk to them and see if they can help you get on your feet and get your life on track. I’m so sorry your parents are emotional abusive - you shouldn’t need to deal with this :( But keep your head up and just keep working on getting your life under control. Do some research online about how you are feeling and what you are going through - I know you can’t rely on everything the internet says, but at least you’ll be able to get an idea of what is going on with you and maybe that’ll be able to help you a bit.
Why might you lose your job? And start applying to other jobs, and see if you can find another one.
Please message me anytime you need anything. Hang in there and stay strong, love <3
Hey love <3
I’m so happy to hear that you went and got help, and that you are recovering. And your doctor is 100% right - it takes sometime and slip ups before someone recovers completely. But you are more than welcome, love - I’m just happy I was able to help you.
I wish you the best of luck with your recovery and stay strong, love <3
My response is on the second message <3
Hey love <3
I don’t know if you will see this, but I really hope you do… Why did you drink the bleach? Did you go to the hospital or something? I just want you to know, that you are absolutely beautiful and if it isn’t too late, just know that nothing and no one is worth killing yourself over - everything turns out okay in the end and if it isn’t okay, then it isn’t the end. You have such a long and beautiful life ahead of you, and I hope you get to see how amazing it really is.
If you do see this, message me and let me know what is going on, love - I care and I want to see you live a long and beautiful life.
Hang in there and stay strong <3