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Anonymous: I just feel like everything's falling apart. My mum has cancer, my grades have dropped, my brothers dyslexia is getting worse, my other brother just stopped being sexually harassed, I think my friend has an eating disorder and I just can't feel happy anymore. I'm crying myself to sleep because I just can't cope with everything and no one knows what's going on and I don't feel like there's anyone I can talk to. I don't think I can do this much longer. What am I suppose to do?

Hey love <3

You are so strong love. Seriously, you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for. If you are handling all of this and crying to yourself, without leaning on anyone - you are strong! But love, that isn’t the only way to be strong, sometimes you need to break down and admit that you can’t do this all on your own, and lean on someone else. We aren’t always meant to be alone in this world, we are meant to be able to lean on someone and have them help us. Unfortunately, we don’t always have the option of having someone else there for us. Do you talk to anyone? (Your brothers or mom). If not, talk to them. Or you can lean on me. I know how it is to feel like everything is falling apart and not being able to go to anyone to help you - it’s awful feeling that alone, and I don’t want anyone to ever feel like that as long as they don’t need to. So, I’m here for you. Things do get better - I don’t know how or when, but they do. And sometimes you don’t even notice until you look back and compare now to then. (Sometimes it does get worse before it gets better, but don’t ever let that discourage you).

You might benefit with finding an escape. For me, I can escape into movies, art, books, and music when life is getting too much for me to handle. Do you have anything like that? 

But love, please don’t ever give up. You are so much stronger than you realize and you have people to help you through this tough time - me included.

And I don’t know if you are religious at all, but your family and yourself are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there and stay strong love <3

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Anonymous: Its all coming back and its too much its too much, and I can't get it out of my head.

Hey love <3 

What’s coming back? You can talk to me.

(Also, if you need a more direct way to contact me to promise a quicker reply, just ask).

Stay strong love <3 

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"A great future doesn’t require a great past."
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This is what I tell people whenever they tell me how ugly they are because of there scars&#8230; Like you aren&#8217;t, you overcame and still are overcoming something, and that is beautiful that you haven&#8217;t given up yet&lt;3

This is what I tell people whenever they tell me how ugly they are because of there scars… Like you aren’t, you overcame and still are overcoming something, and that is beautiful that you haven’t given up yet<3

Here’s a bunny to bring a smile to your face today <3

"Suddenly you’re ripped into being alive. And life is pain, and life is suffering, and life is horror, but my god you’re alive and its spectacular."
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It really is. You are so loved and so many people care about you. I care and am here for you.

It really is. You are so loved and so many people care about you. I care and am here for you.