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I love this, because these are such small things, but they are such beautiful things that make life worth living <3

I love this, because these are such small things, but they are such beautiful things that make life worth living <3

Anonymous: i just wanted to share with all ur followers that this time two years ago i thought i would have killed myself by now, this time one year ago today i cut for the last time, three weeks ago my brother got told he was cancer free and today i got out of bed and could smile simply bc i am alive. it will get better, u just need a little time :) also thanks so much for supporting so many people, me included.

Aww this is a great message! Thank you so much love for sending this to me. I’m sure this message will help - I know it helped me. And I am so happy to hear about your brother and you - I hope life continues going well for you.

Stay strong love <3

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Anonymous: is it wrong that i dont really want to recovery from my depression? is that unusual becuz its too hard to try to recover and i dont think i could face it all changing? im sorry if this is a stupid question but i wanna know if i should just get over it and recover.

Hey love <3

No I don’t think that is a stupid question. I think everyone feels like that at times, but you just gotta know it is worth the long road to recovery to be happy again. Doesn’t it hurt being depressed all the time? Wouldn’t you rather go through some hell to get to that happy place? 

Please hang in there love <3

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Anonymous: I used to SH lots and lots, but I ended up being clean for around 8 months, but tonight I relapsed. And I'm sorry for everything. I'm sorry for being such a fuck up.

Love, that doesn’t make you a fuck up! SH is an addiction, and recovering from an addiction is a long trying journey. You are bound to relapse a few times, before you fully recover. Do you know how amazing being clean for 8 months is?! You’re amazing and beautiful and just absolutely amazing! The road to recovery will knock you down, but you only truly fail if you never stand back up again.

Hang in there love <3

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dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

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This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

dreaming-of-escaping-reality:

awwww-cute:

This is how a happy baby elephant looks like

It just looks so freaking happy!!! ^_^

Here is a little elephant dancing to brighten your day (:

Anonymous: one of my friends started cutting when she was upset at school & someone gave her a blade & says "it helps" & i dont know what to do. Shes now really depressed & her boyfriend calls her thing like a fuck up and whore and i think he may have hit her but she says shes still with him bc hes the only guy that could like her. What should i do?

Hey love <3

First, whoever gave her the blade is a fucking asshole, because I have never met anoterh cutter who actually encourages others to do it - in fact they do everything in their power to prevent them from ever picking up a blade.

You need to help her stop cutting, before it becomes more of an addiction than it already is. Here is a list of alternatives that I have found and other cutters have sent in saying they have helped:

http://stopthepainnow.tumblr.com/post/23748001283/alternatives-to-self-harm

The guy is a douche! There are so many nice guys out there who would love her and be there for her whenever she felt sad or depressed. Help her see that. And even if she doesn’t find another guy for a while, wouldn’t it be better to be alone and strong than with some jerk who told you that you’re a whore for being depressed? Let her knowit is okay to not have a boyfriend, focus on school and find activities you enjoy - when the right time comes along, the right guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. And if you are already happy and strong, he will just add onto it instead of you needing to find someone who can provide that stuff for you.

I hope this helped and if you need anything else, just message me <3

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