This blog is for both male and female. You can talk to me about anything and not worry about being judged, because this a 100% judgement free area. You talk about anything or ask me anything you would like.
Please give me 24 hours to answer.
Stay strong ♥
E-mail: stopthepainnow.tumblr@yahoo.com
Hey love <3
Of course I will do that. And if anyone else has some extra time and would like to help someone, message her. Thank you for anyone who sends her a thoughtful message!
Here is the link to her blog: y0ung-teens
Hey love <3
I remember you. Personally, I think you did the right thing. Like you said your mom isn’t disappointed in you or anything like that, but she loves you and she wants to be able to help you through your rough times. She is gonna be upset and whatnot, but that is normal because you are her daughter and she is probably just sad that you have been hurting so much. Try and not feel guilty, but just work on talking with your mom more.
By the way, being clean for months is amazing! Hang in there and stay strong, love <3
For every note this gets I won’t self harm for 1 day. If you like/reblog this I will put your URL in a jar and for everyday I feel like self harming I will pull out a URL from the jar and if it’s yours I will message you saying how grateful/thankful I am for you caring about me. I know this sounds lame, but it will help me so much in my long journey to recovery.
Hey love <3
I’m so sorry for the late reply :( But I’m glad you didn’t need to go to the hospital and were able to vomit it back up.
How is your life going now? Are things going a bit better? I really hope it is. And if it isn’t, you are more than welcome to vent to me and ramble and whatever else - I would be more than happy to listen to you and be here for you.
Aww you’re welcome and well, I’m definitely glad I called you beautiful then :)
I hope things are going well. Hang in there and stay strong, beautiful <3
Hey love <3
When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Do you see a beautiful, talented, healthy weight, and strong girl in the mirror whose flaws make her even more beautiful? Or do you see someone with flaws and only see imperfections? If you say the second one, I want you to know that the second one isn’t anywhere near the truth - the first one is 100% true about yourself. You might have some sort of disorder, but you could just be hard on yourself. Are you eating right and exercising regularly? If not, start doing that - it will help you feel better about yourself and your body.
I’m sorry for the late response, but I hope this helped. Hang in there and stay strong, love <3
This is for any of you Doctor Who fans - it made me smile and I hope it makes you smile too :)
Hey love <3
First off, no one is ugly - that is how I know you are beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you have ever been called ugly - they were wrong and just because you might not have been their definition of beautiful, doesn’t give them a right to judge you on your appearance.
Even the meanest person ever has some kindness in their heart. Everyone has been hurt in someway and deals with it differently - so if someone bullies other people, it is wrong, but doesn’t mean they don’t have a soft spot - they could be amazing with animals and whenever they see an animal hurt, they stop and help them.
So, what I’m getting at is this: I don’t know you personally. But I do know that everyone is beautiful, because they are unique and different. And everyone has have a soft spot - even if they don’t know it, they do. I’ve met people who say they don’t have a heart, but they are the first ones to help someone in need with no judgement. Do you see where I’m getting at? <3
One of the more accurate things I’ve seen on here. Our image of ourselves can be so horrible and so far away from the truth. We don’t see ourselves as a beautiful person who has obsessions with fictional characters and shows, the look in our eyes when we find something that we love, our laugh to some stupid joke, the smile that spreads from ear to ear, our eyes when we shed tears from being hurt for so long - we don’t ever get to see any of that. We don’t ever get to see how amazing, beautiful, and just wonderful we are - why? Because we see our flaws and we obsess over them so much that we don’t think anyone will love us, because of our flaws. We are beautiful human beings that are too quick to find the faults in ourselves instead of finding the things that are beautiful and make people fall in love with us.
So anyone who takes the time to read this:
You are not worthless. You are beautiful, kind, and have a beautiful heart. And if you are sad, cry from the heaviness of your heart, feel alone, and sad - it is okay, it will get better. You aren’t alone, I know I’m just some stranger, but I see how beautiful you are and see how amazing you are - if you ever need anything - write me, I won’t judge. Hang in there and stay strong - you have a beautiful life waiting for you to live and discover. <3
Hey love <3
I’m sorry for the late reply :( Okay, uh this isn’t exactly normal and I don’t really have any good advice for you, because everyone I’ve talked to or know doesn’t like being sad and emotionally hurt. So, I don’t want to tell you the wrong thing, but do you think maybe you like that stuff because it is a comfort to you? Like, it is something that is familiar to you and you know that if you are hurt and sad, you won’t be let down, whereas if you are happy, you might be sad again?
Hang in there and stay strong, love <3
